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       Words that Build Bridges: The Hidden Power of Every                       Conversation                               

    One of our most powerful tools that all of us possess is communication, and we have never given it much thought. As a teacher I have come to realise that the manner in which we speak, listen, and interact with people shapes our relationships with them, achieve a certain level of trust and even the manner in which our day will turn out. Communication is also about connecting and understanding as well as being understood besides merely passing information. Any dialogue, however insignificant, can bring together individuals and can make them smile.                                                                  

      I tend to enjoy a talk with my colleagues as I wait to get on the bus in the morning in an informal and friendly manner. We discuss the entire range of things - the amusing events that happen on the way to work, what we do over the weekend, and sometimes nothing more than a greeting and laugh. In the bus, these conversations flow cheerfully and joyfully. We joke around, smile at one another, or make small observations about the world around us. These communications are natural, good, vibrant rather than formal and heavy. Before we enter college, such little acts of communication have already established a friendly, homely atmosphere.

    The principal welcomes us once we enter the college with a greeting. He is generally friendly and hospitable, saying a good morning and smiling at us that we are all important. Such little gestures or these little signs are quite effective. They make us remember that it goes beyond speaking it is also the ability to care about other people and be able to make a good environment. Colleagues maintain friendly conversations throughout the busy schedules. Some teachers are especially good at communicating, laughing, offering support, or just enquiring in to see how someone is doing. Relationships are strengthened and the workplace grow into more enjoyable during these times. On the other hand, when communication is lacking, miscommunication or a sense of detachment may arise in the workplace. This shows how important it is to be truthful with people, even on a small scale.                                                                                                                                     

    Communication is key in the classroom and it plays a central role, yet it is not only about knowledge conveyance. By talking to the students nicely, smiling, encouraging the students and listening to them, students feel comfortable, all confident and heard. I have observed that even a short positive comment can make a difference in a student or encourage the student all the day long. Communication is all about making connections.                                                                                                                                               

    There is a personal life communication outside the work place. Having straightforward conversations with neighbours, family, or friends may prevent misunderstandings, build on understanding, and develop relationships. I have also learned that the most meaningful conversations are also small and informal sometimes. Even a speedy tea talk, a laugh you shared or even just a question of how your day was- can form a bond and warmth that will last long after the talk.

    However, nowadays, it is also digital - social media, phone calls, and messages. One also needs to remain affirmative and straightforward in this case. A straight forward communication may make a day of someone and unclear words may cause misunderstanding. I have also learned to act in an apt manner, be wise in utilizing words, and be positive in social and internet interactions.

    Listening is as important as speaking. People sometimes are very much talkative - but to communicate effectively, one has to listen. Being considerate and building trust can be achieved through listening. We can be respectful and develop trust by listening patiently and attentively, such as when a friend tells us about their day, or a colleague narrates a story or a student has been concerned about something. At times it is better to listen rather than talk to establish relations.

    Confidence is also increased through good communication. Appropriate expression of thoughts, well-mannered answers or replies and frankness will be evident in personal as well as professional relationships. Communication boosts teamwork, leadership, and interpersonal understanding. Communication is improved with emotional intelligence. When one can stay composed, speak with compassion and act with caution, the difficult situations can be managed with dignity even on the tough situations. I have personally experienced how effective, concise communication can easily solve minor misunderstandings and bring people together instead of separating.

    Communication is also very much crucial towards the end of the day. Relations are maintained and further strengthened through conversation with the colleagues and also with students - this could be even a few words of goodbye before the departure . By the time we leave, the day feels complete—not only because of what we accomplished, but also because of the relationships that were reinforced by some genuine, compassionate words. In conclusion, communication acts as an intermediary among people. Regardless of the place of conversation at home, bus, staff room, or even in a classroom, any conversation can build the relationship, create less misunderstanding, and develop trust.

    Words are incredibly powerful despite their simplicity. They encourage warmth, knowledge and connections when used appropriately. The charm behind any conversation is that it unites hearts and minds. When we communicate openly and positively, we can create enduring and meaningful relationships.

Jushaini. P

Assistant Professor of English

Al Shifa College of Arts and Science, Keezhattur, Perinthalmanna