SITTING ALONE IS BETTER THAN WALKING WITH THE WRONG PEOPLE

Positive mind can only give light and love to others. As when you are walking with wrong people, in your mind there will be bad and wrong thoughts which can make you bad for the society. And when you are alone, there will be good and fresh thoughts in your mind which will make you good person. Being with the wrong person means you are trying to please and give someone who doesn’t understand the depth of your emotions. When you are alone, you are able to identify your priorities and pursue those things that really make you happy and you can able to focus on discovering where to invest your energy. It is important to explore and reach out to people and things that would give our life a meaning. The wrong person won’t, so why waste your time and theirs? It is important to interact with environment while sitting alone so that our response to environment stimuli shape our actions. Don’t stress over the fact that you are alone right now. That is only going to make you feel miserable. Some people think of ‘being alone’ as a bad thing. It either means you’re anti-social or unwanted, neither of which are a good position to be in. But actually, being alone isn’t necessarily a bad thing, as there are handful of benefits that emerge once you learn to embrace solitude. Once you learn to enjoy being alone, you’re going to grow as a person. Often times when we’re surrounded by wrong people, we’re expending a lot of energy. Thus, being alone gives you the perfect opportunity for a little self reflection. Again, when you’re surrounded by wrong people all the time, you’re constantly trying to read and cater to other person’s emotion. So much so, that you could end up losing touch with your own. When you start to enjoy being along, you’ll gain a greater perspective for your own emotions. You’ll create a deeper understanding of what upset you, and what saddens you. When you’re constantly in the company of wrong person, you’re always making compromises in order to find solutions that the entire group can enjoy. And unfortunately, the things you want most, may not always line up with what the group wants. So, it’s easy to enjoy being alone once you realize that doing so gives you, more freedom to do the things you actually want to do. Being with wrong people can affect your productivity and there are times when the wrong company of other people acts as nothing more than distraction from getting your work done. Time spend alone can be some of the most productive time in your life, mostly because there are fewer distractions, and you can just put your head up and stand freely. Once you enjoy being alone, you’ll feel more confident in your ability to actually be alone. And that naturally leads to you feeling more independent.

You’ll no longer feel the anxiety, or burning desire for company once you learn to enjoy being alone. You won’t feel the need for constant interaction with other people, or the anxiety associated with looking around and seeing no one but yourself. Once you’re alone, the only person’s happiness you have to worry about in that moment, is your own. You can treat yourself to things that makes you happy. You don’t have to keep apologizing for what you’ve done and that takes a lot of pressure out of most situations. While sitting alone, you’ll learn to trust your instincts and make decisions without any third-party validations. Being alone is better than being with the wrong person of bad influence is better because when you are alone you have more time to get to know yourself, such as your strengths, your weaknesses, your passion and things you want to do with your life, plus being alone means you always have the chance to find the right and good company you always wanted. Unlike being with a person with bad influence, yes, you will not feel sadness and loneliness. One such example is that, rotten apple is being separated from the fresh ones because that one can make the fresh one spoil faster. When with the wrong person or person with bad influence, you are assumed to be similar to the person you hang out with. Simply sitting alone is much better than walking with the wrong person because the wrong person’s path is negative which may lead you to full of obstacles. Walking in a wrong way with a wrong person can change your attitude, behavior and your emotions. When your alone your latent talents are pushed out from your mind and you are able to express your thoughts and feelings freely without any fear of being judged. Walking with wrong people may lead you to negatives and that may hinder your expressions and character. Their emotions and feelings are hanged to be yours and your emotions have no value in it. Thus, stand to be alone, never drain your feelings with others. Express our identity and be independent and avoid negative paths that lead you to wrong thoughts.

Mr. Rohit. R 

Head, Dept. of Commerce 

Al Shifa College of Arts and Science 

Kizhattoor, Perinthalmanna